ARGH! There’s a problem! Need help?

ARGH! There’s a problem! Need help?

The florist needs all the decor and to know what we are all wearing including bridal party and flower girl/ring boy.

Here’s the problem:

My fiance’s brother lives in Denver, Colorado. He will be one of his groomsmen. Also, he wants to use his brother’s daughter and son as ring bearer/flower girl.

We are on a tight budget, and I don’t think we can afford extra flowers, as well as the dress and tux. There’s also the added issue of finding out what fits them, where to buy it, etc. for an affordable price (won’t do anything online)

My fiance feels uncomfortable even telling his brother about the wedding, because he lives so far away, and they only talk once in a great while, so it’s kinda awkward (even though everybody else knows about the wedding.) I also think he is dragging his feet because we are still wondering if we want a flower girl or a ring boy…so we need to make a decision before he calls his brother. He does 100% want his brother to be a groomsmen.

I’ve seen weddings done without the ring bearer and flower girl and they were gorgeous.

But I think he does want to do it, deep down. I would just like to know an easy cheap way to get this done then.

Thanks for your help!
You obviously didn’t read the question. We are planning it our way, but we are debating on whether or not we should have a flower girl/ring boy.

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