Hair/make-up/accessories ideas?! Please I’m getting desperate :[?

Hair/make-up/accessories ideas?! Please I’m getting desperate :[?

Hello all you wonderfully helpful people :]

I have a civil wedding to go to this winter and I’m a little stuck!!
My outfit so far:
Dress – http://www.dorothyperkins.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=20552&storeId=12552&categoryId=169507&parent_category_rn=165602&productId=1293421&langId=-1&cmpId=affwin&cmpid=awin
Shoes – http://www.dorothyperkins.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?beginIndex=0&viewAllFlag=&catalogId=20552&storeId=12552&categoryId=178519&parent_category_rn=178501&productId=1391118&langId=-1
Hat – http://www.monsoon.co.uk/invt/59149877 (but in black not purple)
Me – http://s372.photobucket.com/albums/oo164/killer_kittykat/?action=view&current=MeHair.jpg (a little skinnier and hair a touch shorter)

I’m not sure how I can make the whole shebang a little more weddingy!! I’ve been looking for a shrug/bolero to brighten it up but have failed, esp as the shoes have gold in them :] I was thinking a royal blue shrug but I think the black and blue might be a bit un-wedding?!

So stuck :]

Any help would be greatly appreciated!!

Thanks
xxxxx

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