How many brides miss their wedding day?

Dec 30 2011

How many brides miss their wedding day?

This is just a fun little survey for all brides who have already had their wedding day! Write down your answers, I’d love to read them. :)

I was just looking at pictures of the day my hubby and I said our I do’s & I miss it so much. So I decided I’d reflect on it, who says the fun of the wedding has to be over after we have it anyway? Lol.

01. What was your wedding color?
02. How many Bridesmaids/Groomsmen did you have?
03. What venue did your wedding take place at?
04. What venue did your reception take place at?
05. How many people were originally invited?
06. How many actually attended?
07. What type of dress did you wear?
08. Who was the designer of your wedding gown?
09. Did you do a live band or DJ at your reception?
10. What was your first dance song?
11. Who walked you down the aisle?
12. What day did you get married?
13. Was the day you got married the original date all along?
14. How much did you spend altogether for the wedding?
15. Where did you honeymoon at?
16. What’s your grooms name?
17. Who was your maid/matron of honour?
18. Who was his best man?
19. Did you have a bachelorette/bachelor party?
20. Did you have a bridal shower?
21. Did you get more gifts than cards or more cards than gifts?
22. Would you have done anything differently?
23. Were you nervous?
24. What type of flowers did you carry?
25. Do you miss planning your wedding day?
26. Are you planning to do a vow renewel any time in the future?
27 Are you guys planning on kids any time soon now that you’re mr & mrs?
28. What was your maiden name?
29. What’s your new last name?
30. Are you enjoying married life?

MY ANSWERS:

01. What was your wedding color? Palm Beach Coral
02. How many Bridesmaids/Groomsmen did you have? 2 of each.
03. What venue did your wedding take place at? Northwest Presbyterian Church.
04. What venue did your reception take place at? Northwest Presbyterian Church.
05. How many people were originally invited? 65.
06. How many actually attended? 57.
07. What type of dress did you wear? A princess gown.
08. Who was the designer of your wedding gown? Michael Angelo.
09. Did you do a live band or DJ at your reception? DJ.
10. What was your first dance song? I Can Love You Like That By John Michael Montgomery.
11. Who walked you down the aisle? My grandpa.
12. What day did you get married? September 19th 2009.
13. Was the day you got married the original date all along? No, we originally planned on July 25th 2009.
14. How much did you spend altogether for the wedding? $ 4,7000.00
15. Where did you honeymoon at? Orlando Florida.
16. What’s your grooms name? Ryan.
17. Who was your maid/matron of honour? Ashley, my life long best friend.
18. Who was his best man? Rob, his brother.
19. Did you have a bachelorette/bachelor party? No, we just went to dinner seperately with friends.
20. Did you have a bridal shower? Yes.
21. Did you get more gifts than cards or more cards than gifts? Equal amount of both.
22. Would you have done anything differently? Definitely.
23. Were you nervous? At first!
24. What type of flowers did you carry? Roses and baby’s breath.
25. Do you miss planning your wedding day? So much.
26. Are you planning to do a vow renewel any time in the future? Maybe our 5 years or 10 years.
27 Are you guys planning on kids any time soon now that you’re mr & mrs? Of course.
28. What was your maiden name? Venable.
29. What’s your new last name? Whitaker
30. Are you enjoying married life? To the fullest.
CONGRATS! Sounds very pretty, we almost did lavendor, close to purple lol.
Mrs.B we honeymooned at Disney too! :)
Congrtulations to the future brides who did this survey, may both your weddings be evrything you want and more but even more so may your marriage be beyond what you ever expected!

source: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/?qid=20100217120925AArJlOs

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11 responses so far

  1. String of pearls

    I’m not married yet but you got married on my birthday-an excellent choice of date may I say!

    I thought it’d be ok to answer with what my weddings going to be like, hope you don’t mind too much it seemed fun…

    01. What was your wedding color? It will be purples and white
    02. How many Bridesmaids/Groomsmen did you have? there will be three bridesmaids a flower girl and one best man, that’s all.
    03. What venue did your wedding take place at? Tone Dale House
    04. What venue did your reception take place at? Tone Dale House
    05. How many people were originally invited? umm it’ll be about 55
    06. How many actually attended? I think they all intend to as it’s only the very very closest people coming
    07. What type of dress did you wear? I’m going to have a ballerina length fifties style dress with a silk sash with a bow at the back.
    08. Who was the designer of your wedding gown? It’s between two at the mo!
    09. Did you do a live band or DJ at your reception? nope
    10. What was your first dance song? It’ll be ‘happy together’ by the turtles
    11. Who walked you down the aisle? my dad will
    12. What day did you get married? wednesday all being well
    13. Was the day you got married the original date all along? have to wait and see!
    14. How much did you spend altogether for the wedding? it’ll be under £8,000
    15. Where did you honeymoon at? a northern lights winter week in norway
    16. What’s your grooms name? would rather not say on here
    17. Who was your maid/matron of honour? My two best friends (both 24 couldn’t choose between them), the other bridesmaid will only be 12
    18. Who was his best man? his brother as they are very close
    19. Did you have a bachelorette/bachelor party? doubt it
    20. Did you have a bridal shower? not in the UK
    21. Did you get more gifts than cards or more cards than gifts? we’re notasking for gifts or money so we’ll see
    22. Would you have done anything differently? lol
    23. Were you nervous? i will be i hate being the centre of attention
    24. What type of flowers did you carry? a mixture of lots of purples and white
    25. Do you miss planning your wedding day? x
    26. Are you planning to do a vow renewel any time in the future? would never do this
    27 Are you guys planning on kids any time soon now that you’re mr & mrs? we already plan to wait a while after we are married
    28. What was your maiden name? x
    29. What’s your new last name?x
    30. Are you enjoying married life? I hope I will-i feel sure we’ll be loving it though!

  2. 01. What was your wedding color? Red and white
    02. How many Bridesmaids/Groomsmen did you have? 6 of each (too many!)
    03. What venue did your wedding take place at? Hawk Inn and Resort
    04. What venue did your reception take place at? Hawk Inn and Resort
    05. How many people were originally invited? 115
    06. How many actually attended? 75
    07. What type of dress did you wear? strapless a line with pickups with a beaded red sash
    08. Who was the designer of your wedding gown? David’s Bridal
    09. Did you do a live band or DJ at your reception? DJ.
    10. What was your first dance song? This Year’s Love by David Gray.
    11. Who walked you down the aisle? My dad
    12. What day did you get married? September 5th 2009.
    13. Was the day you got married the original date all along? yes
    14. How much did you spend altogether for the wedding? $ 8,500 not including honeymoon
    15. Where did you honeymoon at? Disney World
    16. What’s your grooms name? J
    17. Who was your maid/matron of honour? my best friend
    18. Who was his best man? his cousin
    19. Did you have a bachelorette/bachelor party? yes, went to dinner and dacing, double party with my MOH – she was getting married too and I was her MOH.
    20. Did you have a bridal shower? Yes.
    21. Did you get more gifts than cards or more cards than gifts? cards
    22. Would you have done anything differently? less bridesmaids
    23. Were you nervous? not at all
    24. What type of flowers did you carry? gerber daisies
    25. Do you miss planning your wedding day? some of it
    26. Are you planning to do a vow renewel any time in the future? 10 years maybe
    27 Are you guys planning on kids any time soon now that you’re mr & mrs? in a few years, no rush
    28. What was your maiden name? C
    29. What’s your new last name? B
    30. Are you enjoying married life? absolutely, although it’s not much different than before we were married :)

  3. Wow, thanks for this, i enjoyed reading your survey. Im not married as yet but reading something like this before hand helps to put things into perspective for my own wedding. I laughed reading your answer to ‘would you do anything differently?’. Lol. I dont want to feel that way after our wedding so Im going to try my best to have everything; dare I say it, perfect!! Lol. It is exciting planning your wedding. Im a year out from it happening and Im already stressing. The amount of money involved is extremely overwhelming. My partners family are flying to NZ from the States and are staying for approximatley 2-3 weeks. We live in an apartment and Im like damn, we have to hire a home for 3 weeks to sleep everyone. Lol!! I admire you for keeping the cost of your wedding to a modest budget of $ 4,7000. Im hoping to do the same!! Im getting really excited just talking about it!! Lol!! Thanks for this! Glad to hear your enjoying your marriage!! =)

  4. Im not married yet, but ill base my answers off of what i want to happen in the future. : )

    1. What was your wedding color? Light Blue, and Lavender
    2. How many Bridesmaids/Groomsmen did you have? 6 of each
    3. What venue did your wedding take place at? Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary
    4. What venue did your reception take place at? Salvatore’s Italian Garden
    5. How many people were originally invited? 250
    6. How many actually attended? n/a
    7. What type of dress did you wear? http://quizilla.teennick.com/user_images/K/KI/KIT/kittenmonkey332/1127944111_JADORE.jpg -(without the purse)
    8. Who was the designer of your wedding gown? Vera Wang
    09. Did you do a live band or DJ at your reception? DJ
    10. What was your first dance song? At Last by Beyonce
    11. Who walked you down the aisle? My father
    12. What day did you get married? July 15
    13. Was the day you got married the original date all along? Yes
    14. How much did you spend altogether for the wedding? n/a
    15. Where did you honeymoon at? Aruba
    16. What’s your grooms name? Zach
    17. Who was your maid of honor? Rebecca (my best friend)
    18. Who was his best man? Jake (his best friend)
    19. Did you have a bachelorette/bachelor party? yes
    20. Did you have a bridal shower? yes
    21. Did you get more gifts than cards or more cards than gifts? more gifts
    22. Would you have done anything differently? no
    23. Were you nervous? yes
    24. What type of flowers did you carry? purple roses
    25. Do you miss planning your wedding day? yes
    26. Are you planning to do a vow renewel any time in the future? nope
    27 Are you guys planning on kids any time soon now that you’re mr & mrs? yes
    28. What was your maiden name? Shay
    29. What’s your new last name? Smith
    30. Are you enjoying married life? yes

  5. Hiya =) Great question!! Umm I’m not actually married so I’m answering for my parents haha xD

    01. What was your wedding color? White and forest green because of the location. There main wedding photo was taken in these beautiful grounds with humungous hedges/trees at the back so I think thats where they got the green from.
    02. How many Bridesmaids/Groomsmen did you have? 2 of each
    03. What venue did your wedding take place at? St Peters Church, UK
    04. What venue did your reception take place at? A restaurant called Romeo And Juliet – not there anymore
    05. How many people were originally invited? Don’t know – more than came though – there were some family things going on if you know what I mean and my Dads parents weren’t able to fly there, neither my Dads best friend, from NZ
    06. How many actually attended? It was a small wedding – only about 30 people
    07. What type of dress did you wear? Plain white silk with sleeves
    08. Who was the designer of your wedding gown? Some lady in Westcliff
    09. Did you do a live band or DJ at your reception? Neither
    10. What was your first dance song? “We’ve Only Just Begun”
    11. Who walked you down the aisle? My Mums Dad – RIP -
    12. What day did you get married? December 2nd 1990
    13. Was the day you got married the original date all along? Nope, they actually wanted it in Summer (June/July/August)
    14. How much did you spend altogether for the wedding? I don’t know how much they spent lolz
    15. Where did you honeymoon at? A hotel on the coast somewhere … but for their 25th anniversary me, my sis and my bro are giving them a 2nd honeymoon we’re gonna give them a holiday on a cruise from Seattle all through Canada then Alaska then Canada then Seattle again.
    16. What’s your grooms name? Dominic (my dad)
    17. Who was your maid/matron of honour? They didn’t have one
    18. Who was his best man? Martin – One of his brothers
    19. Did you have a bachelorette/bachelor party? No
    20. Did you have a bridal shower? Yes
    21. Did you get more gifts than cards or more cards than gifts? Both
    22. Would you have done anything differently? Definitely!
    23. Were you nervous? Nope
    24. What type of flowers did you carry? White roses
    25. Do you miss planning your wedding day? TBH I think I miss their wedding day haha!!! Obviously I wasn’t born then but I want to be a wedding planner and I love weddings so yeah haha
    26. Are you planning to do a vow renewel any time in the future? I think maybe for their 50th anniversary
    27 Are you guys planning on kids any time soon now that you’re mr & mrs? Not now haha three teenagers are enough lolz
    28. What was your maiden name? Nigro
    29. What’s your new last name? Smith
    30. Are you enjoying married life? Of Course haha!

  6. 01. What was your wedding color? Apple Red and White
    02. How many Bridesmaids/Groomsmen did you have? Maid of Honor/Best Man… 2 Bridesmaids/2 Groomsmen
    03. What venue did your wedding take place at? Church
    04. What venue did your reception take place at? Elks Lodge
    05. How many people were originally invited? 175
    06. How many actually attended? 135
    07. What type of dress did you wear? A Line Floor Length White Gown
    08. Who was the designer of your wedding gown? I don’t know lol i got it at davids bridal
    09. Did you do a live band or DJ at your reception? a dj
    10. What was your first dance song? Living our love song
    11. Who walked you down the aisle? my step dad
    12. What day did you get married? Saturday November 7th 2009
    13. Was the day you got married the original date all along? yep
    14. How much did you spend altogether for the wedding? not that much 3 or 4,000
    15. Where did you honeymoon at? Gatlinburg/Pigeon Forge Tennessee
    16. What’s your grooms name? Phillip
    17. Who was your maid/matron of honour? My cousin brianna
    18. Who was his best man? his brother adam
    19. Did you have a bachelorette/bachelor party? no not really
    20. Did you have a bridal shower? yes
    21. Did you get more gifts than cards or more cards than gifts? more cards and money
    22. Would you have done anything differently? no i thought it was perfect
    23. Were you nervous? not until the doors of the church opened but i think that was more excitement
    24. What type of flowers did you carry? roses
    25. Do you miss planning your wedding day? yes sometimes
    26. Are you planning to do a vow renewel any time in the future? yea
    27 Are you guys planning on kids any time soon now that you’re mr & mrs? not soon soon
    28. What was your maiden name? shaw
    29. What’s your new last name? goodson
    30. Are you enjoying married life? i love it, its awesome

  7. 01. What was your wedding color? all the colors of autumn
    02. How many Bridesmaids/Groomsmen did you have? none,my four kids stood for us, so did the husband’s best friend
    03. What venue did your wedding take place at? inside a beautiful white gazebo on the grounds of town hall
    04. What venue did your reception take place at? home reception at my sister’s
    05. How many people were originally invited? 22
    06. How many actually attended? 20
    07. What type of dress did you wear? three piece beaded lined chiffon formal pants suit ( pants, tank, knee length duster) in deep garnet red
    08. Who was the designer of your wedding gown? don’t know
    09. Did you do a live band or DJ at your reception? none
    10. What was your first dance song? At Last by Etta James
    11. Who walked you down the aisle? no one (53 year old bride, no aisle to walk down lol)
    12. What day did you get married? on a Sat.
    13. Was the day you got married the original date all along? yes
    14. How much did you spend altogether for the wedding? 2,000.00
    15. Where did you honeymoon at? stayed at my home and made day trips to places like NYC, etc….after 2 nights at a local hotel
    16. What’s your grooms name? It begins with a C
    17. Who was your maid/matron of honour? My eldest daughter acted as one witness
    18. Who was his best man? An old friend for many years
    19. Did you have a bachelorette/bachelor party? No
    20. Did you have a bridal shower? Hell, no….we had two full households to consolidate into one condo.
    21. Did you get more gifts than cards or more cards than gifts? just a few gifts that stocked our liquor cabinet nicely
    22. Would you have done anything differently? No.
    23. Were you nervous? No
    24. What type of flowers did you carry? Asian star lillies, mini cat tails, golden yarrow all in autumn colors
    25. Do you miss planning your wedding day? Nope
    26. Are you planning to do a vow renewel any time in the future? Maybe at the ten year mark-privately tho. No big party.
    27 Are you guys planning on kids any time soon now that you’re mr & mrs? lol I was 53, he was 55…he’s now 59 & I’m 56, will be 57 this summer…don’t think so.
    28. What was your maiden name? An irish one
    29. What’s your new last name? An irish one
    30. Are you enjoying married life? Absolutely.

  8. 01. What was your wedding color? We didn’t have a color.
    02. How many Bridesmaids/Groomsmen did you have? None
    03. What venue did your wedding take place at? Outdoors at a Renn. faire
    04. What venue did your reception take place at? Same as above
    05. How many people were originally invited? Just family and friends
    06. How many actually attended? If you include everyone from the faire who dropped in, it would be quite a number. I don’t exactly know.
    07. What type of dress did you wear? Medieval-style gown.
    08. Who was the designer of your wedding gown? It was bought from a merchant at one of the faires
    09. Did you do a live band or DJ at your reception? Some musician friends sang songs, among all the other entertainment
    10. What was your first dance song? We didn’t do dancing
    11. Who walked you down the aisle? My dad
    12. What day did you get married? Last week of September
    13. Was the day you got married the original date all along? Yes
    14. How much did you spend altogether for the wedding? Under $ 1K
    15. Where did you honeymoon at? Caribbean cruise
    16. What’s your grooms name? It’s a common name
    17. Who was your maid/matron of honour? The person who helped organize the wedding was a close friend of mine
    18. Who was his best man? Didn’t have one
    19. Did you have a bachelorette/bachelor party? No
    20. Did you have a bridal shower? No
    21. Did you get more gifts than cards or more cards than gifts? I don’t think we got any cards that weren’t associated with a gift
    22. Would you have done anything differently? No
    23. Were you nervous? No, but my husband was
    24. What type of flowers did you carry? Cream-colored roses, I think
    25. Do you miss planning your wedding day? No, I don’t like planning weddings
    26. Are you planning to do a vow renewel any time in the future? No; once was enough
    27 Are you guys planning on kids any time soon now that you’re mr & mrs? If we can, sure
    28. What was your maiden name? No need to post it online
    29. What’s your new last name? Don’t have one – I chose to keep my birth name
    30. Are you enjoying married life? Very much so

  9. Not married yet, but it looked like fun.

    01. What was your wedding color? Red, off-white, and black
    02. How many Bridesmaids/Groomsmen did you have? 4 of each
    03. What venue did your wedding take place at? Cape Hatteras, NC
    04. What venue did your reception take place at? Cape Hatteras, NC
    05. How many people were originally invited? 100
    06. How many actually attended? We’re hoping 100
    07. What type of dress did you wear? Wearing a vintage lace design of my own!
    08. Who was the designer of your wedding gown? Myself
    09. Did you do a live band or DJ at your reception? DJ
    10. What was your first dance song? If You Only Knew by Shinedown
    11. Who walked you down the aisle? I am walking by myself but my 3 brothers, my father, and my adoptive father and grandfather will stand at the appropriate time to consent
    12. What day did you get married? October, 2011
    13. Was the day you got married the original date all along? Nope
    14. How much did you spend altogether for the wedding? Roughly $ 35,000 including honeymoon
    15. Where did you honeymoon at? Disney World
    16. What’s your grooms name? Daniel
    17. Who was your maid/matron of honour? Maid= my twin sister Taryn… Matron= my older sister Ashley
    18. Who was his best man? His older brother Brandon
    19. Did you have a bachelorette/bachelor party? We probably won’t since it will out of town. More than likely we’ll just spend the night away from each other with our parties…
    20. Did you have a bridal shower? I will be, yes
    21. Did you get more gifts than cards or more cards than gifts? Don’t know yet
    22. Would you have done anything differently? So far, no
    23. Were you nervous? Nope
    24. What type of flowers did you carry? Red carnations and small white gerber daisies.
    25. Do you miss planning your wedding day? I’m planning it now
    26. Are you planning to do a vow renewel any time in the future? No, every day should be a renewal of the vows
    27 Are you guys planning on kids any time soon now that you’re mr & mrs? Planning, no… Not for a few years. However, I have this funny feeling we will have a honeymoon baby
    28. What was your maiden name? Kenyon
    29. What’s your new last name? Baribeau
    30. Are you enjoying married life? I’m certain I will!

  10. Hmm, loads of questions! I’ll answer a few because many don’t apply.

    I don’t think I ever want to get married.

    If I did, though, I have something really special I’ve imagined. I don’t want to say WHAT happens at the end of the movie, but the end of the Runaway Bride is just how I want it.

    Regarding taking your husband’s last name: What bothers me is that society EXPECTS a woman to give up her own name. It should be a choice.

    If I had a cool last name- like Garcia (I LOVE that last name)- and I got married… there would be no way in hell I’d take my husband’s last name!!

    I absolutely HATE my surname. I love my father and he has done a lot of stuff to try to make it up to me, but it’s just a horrible ugly last name. I would be tickled pink if I married someone named Garcia or López. I know they’re common in Spanish speaking countries, but I don’t care… I LOVE those surnames!!!!

    If I marry a guy whose last name is Fartbomb, I’m not taking his last name either.

  11. 01. What was your wedding color?
    Lilac, pink, yellow, and light teal
    02. How many Bridesmaids/Groomsmen did you have?
    MOH, three bridesmaids; BM, three groomsmen
    03. What venue did your wedding take place at?
    Our home city church
    04. What venue did your reception take place at?
    Hotel ballroom
    05. How many people were originally invited?
    225
    06. How many actually attended?
    205
    07. What type of dress did you wear?
    Very traditional gown
    08. Who was the designer of your wedding gown?
    No clue
    09. Did you do a live band or DJ at your reception?
    DJ
    10. What was your first dance song?
    A Ukrainian love ballad
    11. Who walked you down the aisle?
    My husband and I walked up the aisle together
    12. What day did you get married?
    Saturday
    13. Was the day you got married the original date all along?
    Yup
    14. How much did you spend altogether for the wedding?
    25k
    15. Where did you honeymoon at?
    No honeymoon
    16. What’s your grooms name?
    17. Who was your maid/matron of honour?
    My best friend of many years
    18. Who was his best man?
    my cousin
    19. Did you have a bachelorette/bachelor party?
    no
    20. Did you have a bridal shower?
    yes, two
    21. Did you get more gifts than cards or more cards than gifts?
    Hm, cards came with all the gifts – odd question…
    22. Would you have done anything differently?
    Nope
    23. Were you nervous?
    No
    24. What type of flowers did you carry?
    A huge handtied bouquet with a variety of flowers in the wedding colours
    25. Do you miss planning your wedding day?
    no
    26. Are you planning to do a vow renewel any time in the future?
    no, married for life
    27 Are you guys planning on kids any time soon now that you’re mr & mrs?
    Got our only one, miracle child!
    28. What was your maiden name?
    29. What’s your new last name?
    30. Are you enjoying married life?
    Love it!

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