I hate my brothers girlfriend, please help?
I hate my brothers girlfriend, please help?
I hate my brothers girlfriend, hes 20 and she is 18. Its his first ever girlfriend. He met her online and chatted for a while and now they are together and live together in Liverpool.
She is so snobby, stuck up, controlling and i can see she is no good for him. I believe its his first love and hes there for sex, please read on and tell me what u think and what i should do.
When they first got together i was happy he found someone. I later met her and now i hate her with a passion. She is a big girl and dresses strange, multicoloured clothes and pipe cleaners in her hair ( not why i dont like here, but just so u get the feel). She is very much attention seeking, claims to have all sorts or problems i dont believe.
She doesnt come to Bolton often where my parents live she says its too common and she wouldnt live there if they paid her. When she does come around she straddles my brother on the sofa in my parents house so my parents cant sit down, makes my parents go outside to smoke, apparently she has a bad chest, (bullshit) has sex all day with him while my mum is downstairs and can hear. She once told everyone if they got married he would have to take her name as his last name is too common for her.
She tells him what to wear and makes him shave, apparently shes allergic to beards. Styles him completely different to who he is, tells him what to watch and he never texts me to see how we are unless he needs something. Hes a changed man and its all down to her, he cant play games anymore or watch the things he used to, apparently she doesnt like violence it upsets her. She loves disney and wants to be tinkerbell (go figure). He cant even go to the toilet alone she has to go in the bathroom with him.
Anything you talk abt she has done better or knows someone who has done better and bigger before, even when we talk abt mine and my wifes wedding.
My brother doesnt see the family often as he has to stay with her. He owes her money because she lends him to buy things, she doesnt share money even though they been together 1 and half yrs and live together. We have had run ins before because i can see what she is and what she has done to him but he doesnt see it, i cant hold me tongue and i need to know if its me or what she is really like and how you guys see it from a third person.
Please help me as im going crazy about maybe losing my brother over her.
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